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Changing lives changes habits


Recently, while on a plane to Adelaide, I began to reflect on the ways I am eating and cooking at the moment.  As I started to jot down one or two ideas, I realised that changes in my surroundings and situation seem to have resulted in several shifts in my cooking and eating patterns.

1. I’m cooking less overall
In New Zealand, cooking was a key method of relaxation for me.  I loved nothing better on the weekend than to spend several hours in the kitchen, trying a new recipe, baking a cake, or carefully tending a roast chicken.  Here in Brisbane life is different.  For one thing, the warmer temperature make extended hours in the kitchen considerably less desirable.    For another, our location means that we’re close to many cheap eateries, particularly in nearby Chinatown.  We’re eating out more often, and in general, our weekends are more oriented to exploring the city than hibernating at home.  Finally, having flatmates means that I am more limited in the amount of time I can spend in the kitchen.  Mid-week cooking in particular, is far more mundane than before.

2. Our grocery shopping habits have changed substantially
Back in New Zealand my pattern was to do a biggish shop about once a week, usually alone.  During the course of most working days I would mull over what I felt like cooking for dinner, stopping off for specific ingrediants just about every other day.  This was not an efficient use of time to be sure, but it was an indulgence, and yes, even a leisure activity (hmmm, who will think this is sad, and who will totally get me?).

Here in Brisbane, Colin is strangely edging ahead in the motivation-for-grocery-shopping department.  I suspect this has it’s origins in our first few weeks when a diminished bank account and the higher price of groceries and eating out in Australia meant that we sniffed out bargins, and never left the house without a supply of muesli bars, apples and water.  While staying with Marie and Adam, we took turns with them to cook dinner for the household.  This meant that every second day, menu planning and the required shopping became a joint activity for Colin and I.  Now, I don’t have a car, so I can’t stop off to pick up extra ingrediants just because I fancy cooking a particular dish.  The pattern lately is for Colin and I to shop together every weekend.  Grocery acquisition has become more of a chore to get out of the way so we can get on with our weekend.

3. I’m cooking less vegetarian food
Back in New Zealand I used to cook Thai or Indian inspired tofu curries at least once a week.  Lentil dishes, of various soup and salad persuasions, were a regular feature, as were tofu sausages and vegetarian quiches.  When I think about what to have for dinner now, most of the time my automatic thoughts turn to meat.  I am embarressed – how did this happen?

In my defence, this oddity is partly explained by the fact that we are still building up the pantry.  We don’t yet have the array of spices, oils and vinegars on hand that support a vegetarian imagination, and in this situation, it’s easier to fry up a steak than to layer the multiple ingrediants needed to make tofu tasty.  Beyond this, I think the major factor is that we’ve discovered our local Superbutcher: a gigantic, refridgerated warehouse that stocks a comprehensive range of meat, including organic chicken.  The buying power of this conglomerate results in fantastic specials, and we’ve invested in a small stand-alone freezer so we can take advantage of these.  Having a greater quantity and range of meat on hand has clearly invaded my sensibilities somewhat, although my stomach has started to rebel of late, insisting (quite rightly) upon split green peas.


4. The functionality of my cooking space has altered
We shipped over a range of essential kitchen items (an oven thermometer is essential, right?) and rented a furnished apartment complete with kitchen accessories.  Despite these basics, I’m missing some key elements that assisted my past experimentation and creativity (yes, mini food processor, I’m talking about you).

I am also bereft of my cookbook collection, which I would dip into once or twice a week for bedtime reading or browsing through over a lazy Saturday morning breakfast.  My cookbooks are packed away in our storage unit in Auckland; all I shipped to Brisbane was my battered scrapbook of magazine cuttings and invented recipes.  While I only cook with reference to a recipe about half the time, my books were an integral way of reminding myself of complementary flavours and specific cooking techniques that I could experiment with in the kitchen.  I obviously find it difficult to exist without cookbooks though, as I have already purchased two food magazines and a second-hand copy of Nigella Lawson’s How to Eat, poured over at least ten cookbooks from the library, and continue to read food blogs on a regular basis.  But still, for other reasons cited above, experimentation is low.


But all is not lost. We’ve started getting a vegetable box delivered most weeks, which our apartment manager organises for the tenants in our building.  This is a great way to get a variety of seasonal fruit and vegetables, and it forces me to be creative with surprise ingredients.

A great gourmet food shop exists literally two minutes walk up the street.  They offer a wide range of tempting cooking courses, and regular tastings of cheese, chocolate and other delights.

We’ve just started going to the Saturday market at West End.  These markets are a gourmet destination in their own right.  The beautiful fresh fruit and vegetable stalls are inspiring, and regular visits are slowly resulting in some addictive culinary creations (small eggplants roasted until soft and then sprinkled with fresh mint; a salad of crunchy fennel and radishes, sliced thinly, mixed with Italian parsely and goat feta, then doused in an astringent lemon dressing).

Finally, a recent purchase of delicious magazine has resulted in a plan to indulgently shop for, create, and consume a three course meal at home.  Watch this space for an impending gastronomic explosion!

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Thinking of New Zealand, just briefly

Daisies nestled into soft, springy, verdant lawn.  Such lawns do not exist in Queensland.

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Rarotonga

Stunning beach directly in front of our cabins

After a mere two weeks in my new job (let’s not take that new life too seriously, shall we?), I was lucky to be whisked away for a pre-organised trip back to New Zealand.  We spent three nights in Auckland, during which I attended my sister’s hen’s afternoon/night, made bowlfuls of a seriously good cocktail, nursed a serious hangover while trying to appear completely unscathed, and caught up with friends at a BBQ.  We then flew to Rarotonga in the beautiful Cook Islands for Amy and Frejean’s wedding.

Flying into Auckland late at night produced a distinct thrill as we picked out the Sky Tower, Harbour Bridge, and Mission Bay.  It was wonderful to be back, to feel and breathe the crisp, clean air, and to experience the Rugby World Cup fever that was gripping the nation (this was the weekend of the New Zealand-Australia semi-final).  Everything looked the same, was the same, yet there was a slight sense of distance.  Past memories; a changed perspective.

Flying back into Brisbane 10 days later produced an interesting contrast with both of us experiencing a distinct lack of emotion.  We know that we live here, that our jobs are here, but four months has created only the most minimal sense of belonging.  Home really does takes time.

The photos of the hen’s night are best left to the imagination.  The photos of the wedding are definitely best left to the amazing wedding photographer, Junior, from Noir Photography.  The photos that remain are snippets of five blissful days filled with friends, family, fun and sun.

The view from our cabin at Napa Beachfront Hideaway

Some of the whanau – great to catch up

Most of the troublemakers

Lagoon close to Muri Beach

You can scooter around the entire island in less than an hour if you don’t stop. One of our first tasks upon getting to the island was to hire scooters and obtain a Cook Islands motorbike license (for those in the driver’s seat)

At Whatever Bar – drinks and awesome fish (mahimahi) burgers

Looking out over the airport.  For such a popular tourist destination, Rarotonga has managed to remain relatively underdeveloped. The islander’s attribute this to their relaxed culture and innate cruisy vibe. Planning regulations, such as the rule that no building can to be taller than the height of a coconut palm, also help.

Even paradise can make you sick…roller coaster sea during an unsuccessful fishing trip

Beach-mode in full swing: the entire island is really just your own big bach.

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What is a new life?

When you pack up your life, rent out your house, sell most of your belongings and shift to another country, people are curious to know why.  Most anticipate that we have made the move for career reasons, or perhaps for the higher income levels that Australia promises.  While these things are attractive, for us, it was simply (and totally) about a need for change – a change of scene, a change of pace, a change of priorities, in other words, some kind of new life.

At a time when most of our friends are settling down in a house in the suburbs, having their first, second or third baby, we uprooted ourselves, had a life-changing trip around Asia, and have now rented an apartment in Brisbane and had a couple of flatmates move in.  Almost everything about our lives feels new.

And now I have a job – finally.  I have spent many anxious weeks worrying about the distinct lack of job opportunities for me here in Brisbane.  I’m relieved to have a job, and pleased that it’s not just any job, but one that I am feeling quite excited about.  After six months without earning a penny, I am already anticipating the lightness of being that my first pay cheque will bring.  But…having a job means that I actually have to work again.

Over the past two and a half months since we arrived in Australia, my time has been spent in ways that that were almost unknown before.  While staying with our friends, I went to yoga class up to six times per week.  I caught up on all my personal emails and completed the revisions of a journal article.  I blogged, took photographs, went on long walks around the neighbourhood, and poured over recipe books.  Since moving into our apartment, I’ve easily filled my days with unpacking and arranging our new home, changing addresses and setting up bill payments, daily workouts at the gym, and long walks around the city.

What I want to know is: just where is eight hours of work and 1+ hours of commuting (not to mention the extra time needed to look presentable) going to fit into the pleasurable little routines that I have tenuously constructed?

Sighhh (or, *whine*, depending on how you want to interpret it).

Sure, trawling through job advertisements, emailing potential contacts, and preparing job applications is a time-consuming daily task, of which I am more than happy to see the end.  And despite my enjoyment of a more leisurely life, I have definitely been craving the stimulation of challenging work and interesting colleagues.  I like what I do and I need the busy, creative, and difficult nature of my work to fulfill a big part of myself.  But I don’t always need the treadmill of long hours and too much to ever get done that has often been a feature of my recent working life.

I guess that this is it; this is crunch time for “the new life”, life being one of those things, after all, that is always in the making.

Googling “what is a new life” will tell you that it could be:

  • Various forms of religious or spiritual awakening (not really the life for me)
  • A facial treatment that feels like a refreshing massage (I would love that new life)
  • The ability to slip into a new dress after taking a natural supplement, enjoying greater sex appeal, increased self confidence and a true sense of pride and satisfaction (I’d buy this life in a heartbeat if I thought a pill could indeed achieve this)
  • “A soft fluttering of butterfly wings. A tiny heartbeat growing stronger. A seed blooming under soft snow” (zzzzz…..)
  • Being in “a new house, and in a new town, with a new boyfriend” (well, I got two out of three)
  • FemaleModel5001 from the dating site “Plenty of Fish” (somehow, despite obvious temptations, not the new life for me)

There really is more than one way to make a new life.  Feeling slightly overwhelmed by such expansive choices, this afternoon, I chose to spend a few of my precious remaining unemployed hours at home to make pizza; kneading bread dough and reducing tomatoes to a thick sauce, all the while deeply pondering on the ability of that supplement to turn me into that sex goddess I know is hiding in there somewhere…